Smoke on the Horizon, Quitting Smoking, Part 2

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By thejeffriestube

There is NO Smoking in this Hub
There is NO Smoking in this Hub

Smoking is by far the single largest, preventable cause of health issues and death worldwide. About 5.4 million deaths are attributed to tobacco each year. As I chronicle my own journey to quit, this series will attempt to impart useful lessons to those who wish to quit smoking. This is Part 2, that covers days 5-10 of quitting smoking.

Coffee and some Gum?

I should own stock in Nicorette. I have been having one every hour or so, unless I'm sleeping, even learning how to chew one while I have my morning coffee. It's like a cigarette, right? I have one or two driving to and from work, but the main thing is it is preventing me from having to smoke. It does seem like it's a hassle though, and I've began to wonder if the expensive of this gum is necessary. This is a CRITICAL thought that I'll discuss a little father down.

The Support Team. The Good, the Bad, and the Ones that Still Smoke

There are a few types of people on the quitting smoking support team. Those that want you to stop, those that don't want you to stop (because they might have to), and those that don't care if you smoke or not. Out of those three groups, there is only one you need close to you. I found that most people are truly on that "want you to stop" team. Unfortunately, there are still hold-outs that won't help you much on the other teams. I'm pretty sure I was one of them to people I've known that quit in the past, so I understand. At work, there are smoking areas that reek of smoke and nicotine smell. I used to happily frequent these places, because I couldn't smell it. I STILL frequent it, as a constant reminder of what I ALWAYS smelled like; an ashtray. And let's bee real, a little bit of second-hand smoke right after quitting isn't a bad idea, in fact, I think it's helped me quit. Because I am probably getting a temporary, trace amount of nicotine, subconsciously it may calm me. I'll say it again, you have to do what works for you. Don't hide from the fact that cigarettes exist and they are addictive. You spent a great deal of time with them, so pretending as if they aren't there is avoiding the problem, not addressing it. For an ex-smoker, I think the goal at first is to be able to say, "I can be around smoke and smokers and not have one. I choose not to have one."

Fall Back! Retreat!

I have been tempted. Many times, over the 5-10 days, it would have been so easy to ask a buddy at work for a cigarette. It would be SO easy! And only me and him would know. That's the problem. I would know. And I would have failed EVERY person that has supported me in quitting. Thinking about that, and thinking about wasting the time spent so far keeps me from doing it. The fact I can actually smell things now, and that people can tell I don't smell like an ashtray, keeps me from messing up a good thing. This was hard, why should I throw it away?

Weaning and the Run to Day 10

Remember that critical thought above? About the gum? By the time I was at Day 8, I was running out of gum. I wasn't too keen on spending another $60 on gum, so instead, I started incorporating regular old gum into my schedule. After doing this for a day or so, I really couldn't tell that it was any different. Sure, you may have to brush your teeth, drink water, and exercise a bit more, but that's better than the alternative. On Day 10, I had one piece of nicotine gum in the morning, and the rest of the day was normal gum. Day 11, no nicotine gum at all.

Lessons Learned from Day 5-10

This is not easy, and you will be tempted to give up. Some of you will. I know I did the first couple of times I tried to quit. This is an important time in your quitting to validate WHY you are quitting. If you hold on, and push to Day 10, you can do it. Who wants to throw away 10 days of no smoking to give in to an urge. As I said in my original article, replace the habit. Replacement can save you. Look for a new update, when I cover Days 10-20, and then the big One Month wrapup! Thank you to all of my HubPages supporters; your assistance and support has been critical to my success!

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Daisy Mariposa Level 7 Commenter 3 months ago

Dave,

Thanks for the update. You're helping a lot of people by sharing your journey with us.

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thejeffriestube Hub Author 3 months ago

Thank you, Daisy! I'm glad to be able to help the same people who are helping me. Thank you for your support, that has especially made a difference.

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thougtforce Level 7 Commenter 3 months ago

It is good of you to share your experience and I know how difficult it is to quit smoking. Determination is really needed the first weeks:) I cheer you on, it is worth the struggle a hundred times!

Tina

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thejeffriestube Hub Author 3 months ago

Thank you for your words, Tina! I will endeavor to follow your example.

fatigmon 3 months ago

I knew some one that didn't know what to do with his hands at break time when he was accustomed to a cup of coffee in one hand and a smoke in the other. He started nibbling on carrot sticks instead of smoking. He claims it worked for him.

We all know that smoking increases the risk of heart attack. I was in my Dr.'s office the other day and noticed a poster on the wall. It told where your heart and lungs were by the year after you quit, on up to 15 years. When you get to 15 years your back to the same risk you were before you started smoking. That means I have 2 and 1/2 years to get there. That's a good feeling for me, and although 15 years may seem like a long time when your just starting, it really isn't so long and the rewards are well worth it.

I only mention these items to give you encouragement. Hang in there!

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thejeffriestube Hub Author 3 months ago

Fatigmon, I was completely unaware of the 15 year recovery deal, that's very interesting. Thank you for the heads up and the support, friend!

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Tams R Level 5 Commenter 3 months ago

You can do this! I'm so proud of you. Think of all the personal battles you've faced in life. Now consider this: Are you going to let ONE little piece of paper wrapped around some tobacco beat you? You rock! Hoorah!

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thejeffriestube Hub Author 3 months ago

Tams, you are so right! And to have a community support you is perhaps the best I can hope for. Thank you so much for your support!

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nemanjaboskov Level 6 Commenter 3 months ago

A fantastic idea to write about this, and I'll try to read your updates regularly. I read the first one, and here's the second - I congratulate you on soldering on through kicking the dirty habit! Keep your hands and your mind busy, and you'll be okay! GO JEFFRY!!! I assumed that's your name :)

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thejeffriestube Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks for the support! This is really the hardest thing I have ever done. It's support like yours that really helps, and I'm glad you stopped by!

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Gypsy Rose Lee Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

Congrats and keep up the good work. Next thing you can start on is get a huge piggy bank and each day put in the money you would have spent on cigarettes that day then at the end of one month see how much money you have and what you can buy for it. Then save for 6 months and see what you can purchase etc. Well you get the idea. After one year let us know if you're ready to buy a house, a car or a boat!

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thejeffriestube Hub Author 3 months ago

Thank you so much, that is a great idea! I wanted to do that, but in the heat of the quitting, forgot all about it. Thanks for the reminder.

UPDATE: More when the next installment comes out, but I almost caved today. Life can get stressful, and I had my first major incident that almost put me back two weeks. I resisted, bought gum instead, and feel better I did.

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knottlena Level 2 Commenter 3 months ago

I also enjoyed this hub and the honesty written in it. Hopefully I will get to where you are, but like any addiction-just take it 1 day at a time.

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tammyswallow Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

I hope you are still doing well with this endeavor. You will need to update all of us who are rooting for you with Part III.

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